I wonder have any of you ladies ever though about introducing candles to your love play. I don’t mean as a means for masturbation. The long-standing joke about chicks using candles does not necessarily refer to inserting said candle into your vagina. On the contrary, it should mean lighting the candle and using the hot wax as a sensual means to spice up your foreplay and get your guy/girl going harder and hotter than ever. Hot wax is an intensifier, and is perfect to use to enter into a serious orgasmic phase.

Obviously you can’t just go and pick up a lit candle and start pouring pools of boiling hot wax all over your partner’s naked body whilst in the throes of foreplay. You might find it a good idea to first discuss this option, and whether you or they are comfortable with the act. As with all things sexual it must be consensual and sanity and safety are tantamount. Hot wax play is considered edge play and can be dangerous if misapplied.  What you want is for the hot wax experience to be deeply erotic not deeply painful.

Any wax type can be used but you should use a wax such as paraffin wax, which has a low melting point and therefore is not as likely to burn the skin. Also take care with colored or perfumed candles as they can cause serious skin irritations. There are three different methods of using hot wax, dripping, pouring and painting, with the aim being to encourage squirms and moans of delight and heightening the sexual experience. My preference is definitely for dripping and seems to be the most widely practiced application in this sport. It is also a good idea to keep a bowl of ice handy, for those spots that might just be a little too hot or to use as a contrast, hot and cold!

A candle is a good tool to use for dripping hot wax, and even emergency household candles can be used and you can drip hot wax anywhere on the body below the neck. Depending on how hard the candle is determines its melting temperature and it should be held at least 18 inches above the skin impact point. Test a small spot first and if it is comfortable you know that you are on safe ground. If you are going to be dripping the wax on the more intimate parts of the body, perhaps it might be a good idea to shave or remove any body hair. It is no fun ripping out your pubic or underarm hair in an effort to remove the hardened wax from your body. Try to steer away from colored or beeswax candles: they have higher melting points and a beeswax candle has such a high melting that a drop of wax from the candle can have a flame attached to it when it drops from the candle.

Remember above all that if you are going to indulge in hot wax play, it must be consensual as well as safe.

Have fun ladies, more tips soon.

Toni

Hello there ladies, guess what? Jim brought a gift over for me last night. The Sue Johanson’s Royal Gauntlet. I am such a spoiled little girl. Sue Johanson is Canada’s foremost sexual educator and she has designed this lovely gadget and has appeared to talk about it on the Tonight Show with Jay Leno. Apparently Jim saw the show and found the Royal Gauntlet while he was browsing his Pay Per Minute videos on Lady by Day, so he purchased it for me as a surprise.

Be warned, this vibrating massager is a high tech toy and as I have already told you I am a technophobe, so I decided to let Jim be the initial operator so he could show me how to use it. The Royal Gauntlet is a remote control finger stimulator made of stretchy silicone that you or your partner wears on your hand like a glove. Jim even tried to wear it on his cock, but it was too funny to be taken seriously, so he put it back on his hand. The remote functions for up to 15 foot plus. I reckon you could be in separate rooms and still be able to have some fun. Perfect for a shy women who doesn’t want her partner to watch her using a sex toy, but is willing to let him operate it for her. Though you would probably have to aim it through an open door, I don’t know if those radio waves travel through walls (blonde as I am!)

The product description of this fascinating item says that the Royal Gauntlet has 7 hypersonic functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation; I have no idea what hypersonic means but it sure feels good. It has a powerful vibrating bullet in the tip that turns your entire finger into a vibrator. I have to say that when Jim and I got down to our sexy business with this item, the foreplay was totally hot and heavy. I love the touch of Jim’s fingers moving along the contours of my clitoris and inside my vagina, but when he made love to me last night wearing the Royal Gauntlet I thought I was being fingered by the bionic man. It was brilliant. Absolutely stupendous, I came time after time, eventually I just could not come any more; I was completely and thoroughly fucked. I would recommend that every woman should have one - it is the ultimate sex and erogenous massage toy.

Ladies, buy one now!

Toni

Hi ladies, a couple of days ago on lady by Day I found something really interesting, something that really caught my eye. I don’t know if you remember – some time ago I ordered a Clit Kisser and when I came to using it, I just couldn’t take it seriously so I put it away and have actually never gone back to try it again.

Then I came across Tongue II, described by Lady by Day as a vibrating massager made of soft flesh-like material. Again I got excited and decided that this was something that I couldn’t live without. So I ordered it. Honestly you girls must think that I have nothing better to do than sit at home applying all sorts of toys and gadgets to my privates. I know it seems hard to believe but I actually do enjoy certain aspects of my life that have nothing to do with testing sex toys, lubes, lotions and Tongue II’s.

The Tongue II tongue is about 4 inches long and has a 6-volt motor. I don’t know much about volts but 6 for a vibrating tongue sounds pretty powerful to me. I bet you could power a remote control airplane with a 6-volt motor. Anyway this motor is going to provide my tongue with circular rhythmic stimulation. Sounds better and better all the time. I couldn’t wait, the moment my tongue arrived I had to try it…it mentions something about five speed control operates from a high quality electronic circuit board…like I care, I just want at the tongue.

Eventually I got these huge batteries into the machine, that was exciting enough in itself, and by now I am getting jittery to try this monster. Product description says body part: Vagina, I never listen to that and began applying the tongue II to just about every conceivable body part, until I was so aching to get it to my pussy that when I got it there I couldn’t control myself…oh wow, this is such a great product. I still don’t believe in the “who needs a man” concept, because a tongue II cannot put its arms around you at night. But it sure does go a long way to keeping you warm. I let mine sleep on the pillow right next to me all night long.

I wish you ladies lots of lovely clit licking times.

Toni

Now my sexy ladies, I am dying to tell you about next this product available from Lady by Day. It is completely unbelievable, who ever invented it is a genius and it has often been proven that absolute insanity goes hand in hand with genius. One is never quite sure which aspect of the personality was responsible for the invention.

What we have here is a super stretchy silicone cock-ring, easily believable, a popular choice as a sex toy for couples, it prolongs the erection and generally accepted as being a good product provided it is of good quality. Add to the cock ring a small nub on top to house batteries for a vibrating effect. Still, a perfectly acceptable innovation, applies vibration and stimulation to the partners clitoris and to the penis of the wearer. Very popular and readily available on Lady by Day.

Now this is where the real character of this item becomes evident, this cock ring has ALSO got three strands of hanging vibrating balls dangling from it. Apparently to bang against the cock-ring wearers scrotum or if inverted the partners clit. I like it already and I haven’t even purchased it yet. To cut to the chase there is one review only, remarking on this specific product at Lady by Day. I have to quote it word for word because I laughed so much when I read it; it really tickled my funny-bone. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

“Loved this thing! It is just the right stretchiness and has a nice strong vibration that hits just the right spot. The only concern is that you have to be careful not to get the balls stuck in her buttcrack when you pull away or when it finally comes loose; it will shoot you in the balls like a slingshot! Date Submitted: 01/24/2006 by [anonymous]”.

This reviewer also gave the product a 5-star rating. I know what my next purchase is going to be, do you?

Oh, yes, just one more thing, the vibrating ball banger cock ring is available in the color purple. I have truly grown to love this color.

Till tomorrow ladies.

Toni

Hi ladies, I have been shopping at Lady by Day for some time now and I was telling Jim that every time I purchase an item I am entitled to 15 free minutes of Pay-Per-Minute Video, apparently this is a semi –permanent offer, so if you would like to take advantage of it I would suggest that you check it out now. I am not a huge adult movie (or any other movie or even TV) fan, I have to say I prefer action as apposed to watching, (I find it really difficult to sit still for too long) but I was telling Jim about it and he decided to take a look see what it was all about. I couldn’t resist and thought it might be a nice “togetherness” activity so sat down to watch with him.

Jim was very impressed, so impressed he was glued to the screen. He soon used up my free minutes and decided to use the payment option to continue with his viewing adventures. I was totally bored by then and just left him to it, requesting his feedback and opinion.

There are 7 payment options available:  

1000 minutes - $86.95

515 minutes - $49.95

300 minutes - $29.00

200 minutes - $19.00

120 minutes - $14.95

69 minutes - $9.95

30 minutes - $6.00

Jim quickly paid for 120 minutes and was of the impression that this was incredibly good value for money and so convenient. You don’t have to wait for a DVD to be shipped to you or for that matter leave the comfort of your home to hire a DVD and have to return it afterward. Simple as 1-2-3, once you have paid you have instant access. Jim was saying that he felt PPM is a fantastic idea and whoever thought of it is a genius. The value for money is incredible you can switch from one movie to another without having to pay for a different movie. You can use as many minutes as you like and stop and save the rest. No monthly membership fees, you get exactly what you pay for. Fair exchange! That doesn’t happen much anymore in these times.

So girls if you or your partner likes adult movies, I think (judging from Jim’s opinion) you should get them on Pay Per Minute at Lady by Day, you can’t go wrong.

Happy viewing 

Toni

Ladies, I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I have been selfishly concentrating on myself for so long now that I really didn’t pay much mind to boy’s toys. What is it with us women? The moment Jim introduced me to sex toys, I became so obsessed with my own needs I hardly took his into consideration. Although we have both played with some of my toys and enjoyed role-play and role reversal, I didn’t really think to get anything specifically for him. How could I have been so mean?

After having taken a look at the dolls on Lady by Day and not really wanting to be that extravagant, I came across the Senso Sapphire, it is a super sized (5 inch) stretch silicone pocket pal, you might be wondering exactly what a “pocket pal” is? Well it is a masturbator (for men). I am of the opinion that if I can enjoy a vibrator, Jim can enjoy a masturbator. I didn’t fancy one of the pump action ones to start off with and felt this would be a little less obtrusive. The product has so many rave reviews from satisfied customers on Lady by Day I really got excited to find it and went ahead and ordered it. Apparently the stretchy material grips your penis just like the real thing!

When my (or rather Jim’s) Senso Sapphire arrived on Friday, I couldn’t wait to give it to him and although I was going out with girlfriends on Friday, I decided to call my date with them off and see how receptive Jim would be to getting together. He is so sweet, even at short notice like I gave him he agreed to get together with me. He said he would make dinner and we could stay in and cuddle (Jim’s gentle euphemism for fucking J)

When I arrived at his place on Friday evening, I was so excited, hopping up and down and fidgeting, he asked me if I was ok, so I had to announce I had a surprise for him, taking it out of my backpack and handing it to him. I couldn’t believe he didn’t know what was, I thought he was so worldly, but then he explained that he usually just looks for things to give me pleasure and enjoys them with me. So this was Jim’s first “alone” toy. I was almost as excited as when he gave me my first vibe. Jim accepted my gift with just one condition. He asked me to show him how it works the first time, so I took him in hand and showed him the way.

I must also add he cooked a great dinner on Friday; seared Norwegian Salmon and stir-fry, with a great Chardonnay. A better evening altogether than I had expected by far.

Toni