Ladies, after my adventure with Jim, remember? When I tied his arms and legs to the bed and played with the pink jelly dildo, on his body and butt; even introducing the head of the dildo into his anus a little to see how he would react. I didn’t want to scare him too much and apparently I didn’t. So now we have been talking about obtaining a strap on and trying some more serious role reversal (one of my all time private fantasies). I love the idea, but don’t like the strap on aspect; straps look as though they might be uncomfortable. I don’t have a lot of meat on my body and have quite sensitive skin. I would hate the moment to be ruined by chafing or pinching.

After much research in my favorite place, Lady by Day, I found the Feeldoe slim with mini vibrator. It is silicone, flexible and warms to body heat (so far so good), is described as the first harnessless strap–on, designed by women for women. I thought immediately that this was the perfect product for Jim and I - so I ordered it. I must note that when it arrived and I opened the parcel I had some doubts, but there is only one way to deal with new and strange looking gadgets and that is to try them out. If you like them, fine! If not put it away and try it again another day when you or the gadget might be more in the mood (just like that new Italian coffee maker of mine).

It is a strange looking animal and the color; well, it is bright blue; there is nothing, other than the shape, that is pseudo natural about this product, it is utilitarian and in-your-face. There is a bulb that is inserted into the vagina and the dong extends at a natural angle for partner penetration. There are also ridges at the base of the dong for clitoral stimulation during thrusting. All I needed now, right now! Is someone to try it out on! You will be happy to know that I wasn’t expecting any more deliveries that day, or I might just have tackled one of the delivery boys and tried it out on them. I said to myself, no way am I waiting for Jim, I am going to try this out solo first. There is a removable bullet for added stimulation, you can be sure I left that in and very fortunately micro batteries are included; I was all set to have a flutter with my new toy named “Big Blue”.

Ladies I will assuredly let you know what happened once I have “test driven” this on Jim.

Have a great day

Toni