Ladies, I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I have been selfishly concentrating on myself for so long now that I really didn’t pay much mind to boy’s toys. What is it with us women? The moment Jim introduced me to sex toys, I became so obsessed with my own needs I hardly took his into consideration. Although we have both played with some of my toys and enjoyed role-play and role reversal, I didn’t really think to get anything specifically for him. How could I have been so mean?

After having taken a look at the dolls on Lady by Day and not really wanting to be that extravagant, I came across the Senso Sapphire, it is a super sized (5 inch) stretch silicone pocket pal, you might be wondering exactly what a “pocket pal” is? Well it is a masturbator (for men). I am of the opinion that if I can enjoy a vibrator, Jim can enjoy a masturbator. I didn’t fancy one of the pump action ones to start off with and felt this would be a little less obtrusive. The product has so many rave reviews from satisfied customers on Lady by Day I really got excited to find it and went ahead and ordered it. Apparently the stretchy material grips your penis just like the real thing!

When my (or rather Jim’s) Senso Sapphire arrived on Friday, I couldn’t wait to give it to him and although I was going out with girlfriends on Friday, I decided to call my date with them off and see how receptive Jim would be to getting together. He is so sweet, even at short notice like I gave him he agreed to get together with me. He said he would make dinner and we could stay in and cuddle (Jim’s gentle euphemism for fucking J)

When I arrived at his place on Friday evening, I was so excited, hopping up and down and fidgeting, he asked me if I was ok, so I had to announce I had a surprise for him, taking it out of my backpack and handing it to him. I couldn’t believe he didn’t know what was, I thought he was so worldly, but then he explained that he usually just looks for things to give me pleasure and enjoys them with me. So this was Jim’s first “alone” toy. I was almost as excited as when he gave me my first vibe. Jim accepted my gift with just one condition. He asked me to show him how it works the first time, so I took him in hand and showed him the way.

I must also add he cooked a great dinner on Friday; seared Norwegian Salmon and stir-fry, with a great Chardonnay. A better evening altogether than I had expected by far.

Toni