Hello ladies, I have broached today upon a subject that could be a touchy one for some women. Others of us have no issue with it whatsoever and it appears that recent statistics relating to heterosexual females indulging in anal sex indicates that anal sex is either on the increase, or it is merely that the modern women is no longer afraid to admit she has been there and done that. This is chiefly due to the fact that the subject is not nearly so taboo as it has been considered to be in the past.

Judging from what I have heard and read, if you find yourself in the position of not having discussed anal sex with your partner, he is more than likely going to broach the subject with you at some stage. In other words he is going to ask you if he can insert his manhood into your pooper. He already knows that you are letting him sexually violate your vaginal area and probably wants to go for more forbidden territory. He may even go so far as to tell you that he wants you to be a “virgin” for him! Remember, you don’t have to agree; anal sex as with any other kind of sex act, should always be consensual. Bear in mind that most men are similar to the Star Trek Enterprise crew, they have the urge to go where no man has ever gone before.

Anal sex can and is often considered to be very pleasurable by we ladies who enjoy it; the vagina shares a wall with the rectum and the sexual nerves that enjoy stimulation during anal sex can lead to a very unique kind of sensation. However it has also been said that women only try anal sex twice, once to see how it is and the second to see if it was really that bad!

What also comes to mind is the matter of whether you are going to be embarrassed by the effect of exposing your partner or bedding to some of your poop; This need not be so, anal sex is not necessarily messy as the rectum only contains feces when it needs to be emptied and enemas can be used to empty or clean the rectum first. http://www.sextoysex.com/sex/start/view.html?a=ladybyday&pnum=PD2733-00

It might be better, though, to start practicing with something small and soft, like a butt plug or beads. There are so many of these types of products available; you can then work your way up to penile insertion. http://www.sextoysex.com/sex/start/view.html?a=ladybyday&pnum=SE0428-01

It is valuable to be aware that rectal tissue can tear quite easily if roughly handled and that you are handing over your sexual power to someone else when you allow this act, so be very careful about trusting them. Use the proper precautions to prevent STDs; unprotected anal sex is considered an extremely high risk sexual activity. So use condoms and plenty of lubricant, the more the merrier (really get messy) and preferably use one specifically designed for anal use. http://www.sextoysex.com/sex/start/view.html?a=ladybyday&pnum=DJ1315-01

In parting, take care.

Toni